nursery: When? I fished
As I wrote in previous posts, Misia has been accepted in the day nursery.
This morning we went to see the structure, in order to make a decision.
This is a private kindergarten, approved, or with some local places.
E ' a villa on two levels with 2000 sqm garden.
structure very nice and friendly and welcoming atmosphere!
The impression was, therefore, on the whole positive, although not other benchmarks.
The environment looks clean and hygienic - it seems just then Chenes - do not have a large number of children (12 to nest with 4 teachers), about forty, I think in total, including medium and large.
has the kitchen with the cook (very important aspect, I do not have all the facilities) who delights with healthy food and good, I hope (but cmq just joined this morning was a fantastic perfume of freshly baked donut, and sorry if it is little).
Of course my problem is if you send it or not, considering the age.
Among the pro there are of course, first and foremost, the social aspect, which I think is very important from an early age and in any case the fact that from now on get used to not be too routine or viziatella (eg her. 1 month he started sleeping alone in her bedroom).
Among against the diseases that could be raised and the cuddles that he would at home.
We would accept the idea and put it In late October, subject to the completion of her sixth month of life.
Needless to say, the grandmothers are desperate, my mom cries when she knew, and when I told my mother-in-law is bleached ...... and I honestly do not understand why until the end.
I mean, I often feel that we are parents or grandparents to create trouble or problems for the children of our self-interest: sometimes do things to satisfy our pleasure, rather than a real need of the child ... I can think of for example because they always stay the dwarves in Latvian.
..... but what is the real need for this? Attach it to the roof? ok, we can stand ... and those who are not breastfeeding? in addition to the personal pleasure of having them next ... what is the real need of the child?
By the same rule applies for asylum: why do not you send him? Why
grandmothers are so desperate?
I wonder what has to do with the disappointment of not being in their "spupazzarselo" all day ... but if the real reason is this: I'm sorry, but where is the real welfare of the child: what to put in the first place?
course the love and care they can give a mother or grandmother to the little guy is out of the question .... but at the level of socialization or training of character, who says that the best thing is to leave dwarfs in a bell jar for as long as possible?